How the situation unfolds
- 01
Contact
Dating messages, video invitations, or gaming chats.
- 02
The lure
Intimate contact followed by a pay-for-deletion demand.
- 03
The demand and outcome
Shame and fear drive repeated payments, sometimes followed by fraudulent paid-removal services.
Verify these things before paying
- Decline strangers' intimate-image requests
- Limit strangers' access to your contacts
- Avoid unknown private-chat software
Already engaged or paid?
- Stop payments and further image sharing
- Preserve threats, then report and block
- Seek police and trusted-person support
Contact your payment provider and local police promptly. The responsible institution must confirm whether a payment can be stopped, disputed or returned.
Keep these records
Keep originals and organise working copies. Never give strangers verification codes, banking passwords, private keys or seed phrases.
Original references
- Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI)Publisher location:United States · EnglishOpen the original reference ↗https://www.fbi.gov/how-we-can-help-you/common-frauds-and-scams/sextortion/sextortion
This page summarises public prevention guidance to help recognise methods. It is not an enforcement conclusion about a particular incident. Check the source page for its original title. Procedures and reporting routes vary by jurisdiction. Compiled October 2026.
